Analysis of our financial situation

  • Erstellt am 2019-05-09 18:28:04

Noelmaxim

2019-05-10 13:06:04
  • #1


To me, all this sounds like you’re bitter that it’s not like that for you, very negative, partially unclear what you want to say, and I also wouldn’t know why the nice things you mention couldn’t happen in parallel and why a project description should then no longer allow that.
 

Farilo

2019-05-10 14:01:58
  • #2
Hi Noelmaxim, interesting to read that I come across as bitter. I write "I" specifically because I can exactly do that. My house is paid off, I’m under 40, have zero pressure, and I’m doing well. I have lots of time, can pursue my hobbies, and even be "active" here in the forum. So that you read bitterness into me may say something about you? If yes, that would be a pity. I don’t wish that on anyone! And that brings us to the topic of why I write what I write. I know exactly what it is like to live in a house that "belongs" to you. That freedom is incredible. Many unfortunately experience it only at retirement. Or partly never... THAT is what I find sad. And if I see someone who has the financial means to also enjoy exactly the freedom I mention and have experienced, and who then even asks me why I wouldn’t build/buy at that level, then I’m quite willing to share that with him and others interested. So, now to finances and leisure activities... So, sure, everyone can go for a walk after work, do sauna visits, city trips, etc., etc... (Let’s exclude the Harz4 recipients). If you’re an average earner and have bought a house (say 500k), then things get a bit tighter. For example: 1400 loan repayment net per month for the house. 200 reserves 200 operating costs 100 insurance 500 car 300 food etc. Then you’re quickly at 3-3.5k net per month in ongoing costs. If you have children, you’re quickly at 4-4.5k net. (Generously calculated). Managing that as an "average earner" is quite a challenge. 4-4.5k ongoing costs per month and then city trips, sauna, long-distance travel, etc. and as an average earner don’t exactly go hand in hand. Being an "average earner" and walking the alleys of BW and seeing that you could afford this or that property doesn’t really fit together either. I know exactly what it feels like when you walk through the alleys and know you can’t afford the houses. I also know exactly what it feels like to stroll through the alleys and know that you can afford it. I find the second variant even nicer than the first. 1) Me 2) That’s what a forum is for. Different opinions, etc... 3) Among others, he asked me. Then maybe you haven’t been active in this forum that long? Or we read different threads?! The tenor here is always similar. If you have "enough" money, it’s: build now, tomorrow is too late because everything is expensive. If you don’t have "enough" money it’s: save save save. Both hints are fine... I just have another... namely: if you have a very good saving rate, a fair rent, and already good equity, then save another 3-4 years and you will save yourself immense pressure! It’s like the attempt with children and the surprise egg. You tell the children to wait with opening and then they get another one. If they open it immediately, there is no more. The children who waited were, according to statistics, the "more successful" children later on. Patience is a virtue. You’re asking right now. Then I can gladly explain again. Yes, but only to a limited extent... (See example with house or without etc). Sure... If you want to live the sweet life and don’t care about tomorrow, then you can do everything! Strangely, that’s often those with a less good financial outlook. True to the motto: better off missing an arm than being destitute. That has some justification... But the OP is doing very well financially. Then you can also point to the next level. If it is as close as with the OP, then I try as a nice person to point him to it. He doesn’t have to follow my advice... He can also buy the cabin for around 800k, put down 200k, and pay off 600k with about 1900,- per month for 30+ years. Everyone as they like.
 

Noelmaxim

2019-05-10 14:26:38
  • #3
No idea what you want to say, really not

Well, here I am again, in another forum the professional scapegoat for 9 years

It honors you if you feel sorry for people, but firstly that's not what this is about at all and secondly, suffering is not appropriate here for the OP, of course you should express your opinion here, but it sounds very confused and somehow brings no added value.

On the one hand, you announce early on to have paid off a property, also to feel comfortable with it (or rather you show this off), on the other hand you say that the OP should just wait, yes, you even suggest paying for the property in cash. How that should work, no idea, maybe you just didn’t have a calculator on hand at the Promenade in Sylt or at Kaffee Kranzler

I think you rather lack the ability to put yourself in the consumer, in the OP, to feel how he thinks and what he intends, accordingly from my point of view there is little usable help coming from you.

I on the other hand am amused by your life story and your pity, but that does not belong here and helps no one, even if I’d like to shout to you, well done, you did a great job and mastered it.
 

apokolok

2019-05-10 16:24:55
  • #4
Thomas, you have managed for a few days to weeks now to behave properly here and to bring your knowledge (and of course business) to people in a reasonable manner. But now you are already starting again to behave like the sole ruler in the financing forum and to talk others out of their opinions. Just do it like before, write in your concrete numbers where it fits, send people a message if they want to finance through you, and don't start fundamental discussions. It simply doesn't help; it repeats exactly the same every time anyway. Otherwise, it will go like the last times and you will quickly have one less forum to 'enrich'.

@TE: It is doable. The question I would ask myself is: Do I really want such a big pile of debt for a huge house? Wouldn't a house with 160m² and a smaller plot also do? The fact is, if one salary falls away, the currently planned financing will quickly become very tight. You could also say something about the scope of the 'core renovation', then one can rather say something about the estimated costs.

P.S.

Haha, that one was too good to leave uncommented. For YOU, of course, there is no better time.
 

Niloa

2019-05-10 16:47:04
  • #5
The thread is so long, I don't want to go through everything again, so the question is: How much is the land approximately worth compared to the house price?
 

Noelmaxim

2019-05-10 17:04:03
  • #6
Sorry, but I have nothing to dispose of, to sell here, and I certainly am not just setting conditions.

I have expressed and justified my opinion, and already 2 users see it the same way and have informed me of this via message.

This controversy must be allowed to be conducted, I adhere to the rules, but first and foremost I want to help and yes, for ME there is no better time due to the interest rate situation and the demand, and I accept if others see it differently.

Regarding the OP with his starting point, it is not clear to me what he should wait for, and that better further information should be obtained so that an individual consideration can be made in a well-founded manner, I have also already stated.

I do not want to be the good user just because I write into the general tenor, but because I present my viewpoint in a well-founded way.

I am happy to hear and read other opinions, but what came was something I could only respond to like this.

I think the rules are being followed and so far everything is green.

Measure me by the quality that will grow, not by applauding what I see differently and will also express.
 

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