I'll just take this thread now because I can't/won't open a new thematically appropriate one yet.
After this rejection really killed my motivation, I shifted my focus and looked for a dog. After almost 40 years with dogs, somehow I can't do without anymore...
On December 3rd we picked up the little one in the evening and on the way there there was an email from the online presence of the daily newspaper that a new offer had come in. I immediately contacted the broker. My husband called Monday morning and arranged a viewing for the afternoon. On Tuesday we said yes and next Monday the application goes to the bank.
We're not exactly euphoric yet, anything can still happen. The house is in good shape, built in 1930, all the major work has been done in recent years (roof, windows including shutters, bathrooms, heating). Plot with carport and shed. Everything fits so far. The layout is a bit suboptimal, but no obstacle.
The previous owner has to sell due to serious illness and has a caretaker who takes care of things. But since it is an experienced real estate agency and an official appraisal was made in advance, all parties expect a smooth process.
It's crazy how quickly things can suddenly happen. A dog and a house in one week.