What are you trying to tell me with that?
The problem is that your other threads do not end with a decision from you regarding the options mentioned. And here, too, you thank for his efforts, but you do not state which option you prefer. That will also be the notary’s problem—that you do not yet know exactly what you want to build. You first have to explore with an architect and the building permit authority what is even possible.
So I want to maintain the minimum distance of 3m to the neighbor on my property. However, I want to stay 1m away from the boundary with my parents’ property.
Let’s assume this wish is set and that there is no development plan and no actual building boundary (for an assessment you would need a generous excerpt from the cadastral map showing neighboring buildings). Then this would be one possibility:
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The respective property owners formally declare to the building permit authority the mutual assumption of the setback areas (partially for T3, fully for T4). The notary has nothing to do with this unless one intends additionally a land registry security, which only makes sense if permanent compensation payments are intended. These areas may then no longer be built upon.
However, as long as there is no concrete planning, no binding agreement or declaration can be formulated to the building authority and, if applicable, to the land registry office, because the depths of the setback areas depend on the exact dimensions of the project. At the present time, this is not yet necessary since it is only about the transfer of ownership within the family. But if the distrust is so great that the necessary declarations might later no longer be made, the building application must be submitted before the transfer of ownership.