I don't need direct experience with parquet when I see how the kitchen floor looks after 3 days without damp mopping... but never mind, I already said. For the tough ones, it might work because nothing ever falls on them or they wipe twice a day without thinking.
For the average family, there is nothing more impractical than parquet in the kitchen.
I even had parquet in the bathroom, so why shouldn't it work.
In discussions where only extreme cases like waterfalls or volcanic eruptions are talked about, the result is already predetermined. Then I would recommend the same here as in every commercial kitchen.
Our landlord kitchens are mostly integrated into the living area and there people handle things completely normally, including the floor.
So you can practically put anything there, but it especially depends on your usage and how you handle the kitchen.
Let's assume the "normal case" and parquet works wonderfully there, we even have softwood planks.
Your note that you want to install it yourself got somewhat lost, so you should check beforehand what you can actually install.