Hello everyone,
sorry for the late reply, but there was a lot going on at the same time.
First of all, thank you very much for your answers.
Rohbau inkl. Keller/ Erdarbeiten: I will specify this with the architect - I had expected more intuitively
Sanitär/ Klempner: Almost 50k seemed realistic to me, but I will ask what exactly is supposed to be included. Tiles as well, since not all 3 rooms are to be fully tiled
Elektro: Smart home is not included, that would be extra
Bzgl. Grundstück: Yes, it is possible. Plot size 10x8 and the parents were simply moved to the roof. The garden is not huge after subtracting parking spaces and the house, but you have to make compromises, especially in Rhein-Main.