A small selection on the topic of budget:
https://www.hausbau-forum.de/threads/liste-der-anfallenden-Baunebenkosten-bauseits-teurer.9737/
https://www.hausbau-forum.de/threads/warum-ein-Hausbau-fast-immer-teurer-kommt-als-kalkuliert.16237/
https://www.hausbau-forum.de/threads/kostenanschlag-ueberschreitung-möglich.32463/
https://www.hausbau-forum.de/threads/baukostenentwicklung-noch-normal.28743/
https://www.hausbau-forum.de/threads/Bauvorhaben-Neubau-Budget-gesprengt-Erfahrungen.28751/
Regarding the floor plan:
Draw in all the correct furniture to scale as you want or have it.
Take walking paths into account.
Do you really want to squeeze a sauna into the narrow storage room next to the bicycle, lawnmower, and so on? That feels like a warehouse atmosphere, but nothing like wellness.
A bathroom as a passage room doesn’t work. Uncle Franz is really sitting on the toilet and the kids come in.
Overall, I would start over with the floor plan. After you have planned the budget.
Demolition: Ask several demolition companies. And if it’s not necessary, don’t give a timeframe. We searched for over a year for a company that does gutting and demolition. The offers ranged from 45,000 to over 100,000 including disposal. (It was more than for you and in Bavaria disposal is quite expensive.)
Have the basement carefully backfilled and compacted. Definitely demand a compaction certificate with load plates if you want to build on top of it.