You should clarify that first and foremost. Also from the perspective of the principle question: for you preferably the "edge" (in the hope of maximizing profit on the parts sold), or perhaps better for you the pastor's piece (which I would by far prefer).
I would probably only tackle the semi-detached house if I knew the buyer of the other half or could at least assess them very well – otherwise it will be difficult to agree on a general contractor and a reasonably uniform design. Nothing is uglier than two completely differently designed semi-detached halves (my taste). Otherwise, I wouldn't find a semi-detached house bad at all, with a similarly sized living area and a "felt" similarly sized lawn area around the terrace, it would simply be significantly cheaper. I have no illusions that a semi-detached house is substantially cheaper to build than a single-family house, but you save on the expensive square meters for the setback areas – the 3m wide lawn and hedge areas around the single-family house. Nevertheless, I am torn... paying off 7 years longer and having a single-family house instead of a semi-detached house? Fortunately, both are affordable. What would be the prime piece from your point of view? Located at the back (in the north), hidden from the (very very quiet) street? For that, you might have to accept shading from the other houses on the southern part of the property. Or better toward the south by the street, where you are somewhat more visible but have less shade? There is hardly any difference in quietness; in the north it is even tendentially a bit louder. Since I probably won't buy everything first, tear down the existing buildings, and then sell part for a profit, but rather split it under equal conditions and only then tear down, the good piece makes the most sense. One more question: How is it best to regulate joint demolition costs? Does each owner of a sublot simply pay a fixed share of the total contract to a demolition contractor? Or should something like that be contractually fixed in the notary contract? I imagine jointly performed own work would be somewhat difficult...