However, it must be mentioned that I am a trained carpenter and I do trust myself to do the work within a manageable amount of time
Of course, not everyone has that advantage
Something like this is important.
When it comes to personal effort, I clearly overestimated myself and my environment back then.
20K Euro?
Assuming, let's say, 10-15 Euro/hour: As some people have already written here: That’s a significant amount.
Especially in drywall construction. For us, that was a "lot of wood". And much of it, if it was to be done properly, was partially not realistically achievable by me as a person without a manual trade education, at a sensible quality and within reasonable time.
I then subcontracted the trades from small reserves and cash flow to specialist companies.
And helped as much as possible, while also tackling other trades I could support (electrical installation).
My advice would be:
With manual skills and a good portion of support (which is actually provided): Quite a bit is doable. Yes.
But otherwise: Do not underestimate personal effort. Better keep the share small, if necessary forego this or that. Looking back now, in my situation (employed, moderately good to reasonably skilled in manual work) I would estimate 5-7K Euro.
Good thing I didn’t stretch it to the limit back then. That made it doable.
So: Take my advice, for God's sake don’t stretch your construction project to the limit with personal effort. Better to keep everything a bit smaller. I always say: Better a small house than none or one that becomes too expensive.
By the way: Personal effort in the area of outdoor facilities (terraces and so forth) didn’t interest my bank either. Zero.
Best regards
Thorsten