Hello staubtrocken,
First of all, thank you for your many words, which reinforce my decision. For me, it was clear from the beginning that I would only seriously consider the project once I have the promotion and the first few months at the new post behind me. Due to the bundling of posts, I am aiming for a long-term assignment nearby (e.g., Münster, my old military home).
You can never categorically rule out a relationship, but I am somewhat scarred by the past and would not move for a woman, leaving friends, family, and my junior behind.
I am currently observing the market in the region and find the prices partially very high compared to a few years ago. However, I understand the point that they will go down again with rising interest rates.
I would look forward to an assignment before buying a house, as equity would increase. I have already ruled out a new build, as it is too expensive and the depreciation in the region will be very high.
Pension is a good topic; everything is moving towards 62 years. It would personally benefit me, as I would then receive a "good" pension with 44 years of service at the end. Of course, retirement age 55 would also be nice, but others have to wait even longer.
Currently, my savings plan is working perfectly; in addition, €250 per month come on top, as I have calculated everything very generously. I will continue this for at least another 5-6 years and wait to see what life still has in store for me.
Regards