Hi,
I am aware of all the additional costs involved in buying the house, it’s not like that. We were also thoroughly informed about this during the consultation.
However, I have now singled out two essential aspects for myself:
a) Optimize the household budget and savings plan, there is clearly significant potential here.
b) Build up larger reserves and pool them together in spring.
c) Ideally, buy a renovation-requiring house with solid structural components (walls, basement, foundation, roof) – no, not entirely serious, but the basic idea of a compromise is starting to take root.
d) Postpone the house purchase.
Whether it will be a compromise of all these things, I will first observe. I am now going to approach it "calmly" and then draw conclusions around early 2015. The main pressure point is that we will then need a larger apartment, can build up fewer reserves, and of course will not be repaying loans during that time. The cat likes to bite its own tail here... that must and should not be forgotten.
As described, since we also have a permanent tenant in a multi-family house and the additional costs would be capped by her, there is still the option of luck – acquiring a house through private contacts on fair terms.
I also don’t think this arrangement is quite that common.