Ultimately, he has now received enough warnings to have to assess for himself whether he wants to take the risk.
It can go well, but it can just as easily go wrong. The most important thing is to always keep an eye on the financial matters and not be tempted by the dream of owning your own home. I also have to constantly hold myself back. Because the temptations to quickly spend another thousand are too great. You quickly do the math and say: it lasts for 20 years... it pays off over the years.
One thought you also have to give up, which we often did at the beginning, is: "We'll build later when we have money again." Unfortunately, this later would only be in 20 years :). Because you should go as quickly as possible to a 2% repayment or more. And then there really isn't anything left. And you must not forget to think about whether you want to restrict yourself so much for a house. When you finance at the limit, there is simply no family vacation.
We calculated everything so that we can still afford to fly to China for 2 weeks now and then. That always has to be possible because otherwise life is not worth living. And the illusion of wanting to build something for your children should also be discarded. Because life is becoming more and more global, and few want to move into an outdated parental home.
What I would be very interested in, however, is at what interest rate you get the fixed 30-year interest period. We already had difficulties getting a decent interest rate for 15 years, and for 20 years the bankers took flight. Our financial advisor finally made it possible to fix a 20-year loan at a 15-year interest rate. So €200,000 loan with 20 years of interest rate security at 3.3% effective.