- the hot water storage tank with 165 liters for 5 people is indeed very small.
I wonder anyway how you managed with that in the past. When I shower extensively with my three children (which takes a while with three girls with long hair), our 300l tank is almost empty or down to 25 degrees.
I just finished reading the thread completely. Actually, only a properly large buffer tank for the heating remains as a solution for a messed-up heating planning. With a 3kW lower modulation limit for the well-insulated house, the heat pump has no choice but to cycle heavily, so you can almost watch it age rapidly (keyword compressor starts).
I would actually work with two separate tanks and as soon as the heat pump needs to be replaced, switch to a significantly smaller unit and disconnect the heat pump buffer again.