Your house will not become cheaper by striking out items from offers that you believe you do not need. Furthermore, you have a large number of misconceptions about how the whole thing works. The architect has merely broken down some items of his offer for you. This is not equivalent to being able to strike out any of them. He only offered you 1 to 9 or 1 to 4. Therefore, you cannot simply put together "1 to 4 and then only 8." Besides, his fee offer will not apply if you specify the construction system. You should never choose an architect for a house made from his formwork stone system who is not specifically accustomed to it. In general, I can only recommend formwork stone houses as a turnkey option: these systems have specific characteristics that require craftsmen experienced with these systems. Additionally, you will have difficulty with the tendering of craftsman services because craftsmen either do not dare to tackle it at all or charge extra for the additional effort required due to the specifics of the systems. Keep in mind that you must necessarily contract some trades to specialist companies: for example, electrical and heating systems may not be put into operation by a layperson in Germany.
What the kit manufacturer offers you as so-called planning is only a permit planning (on the condition that you accept at most the third revision of the single design!) and subsequent work planning, starting with converting the house plans into stone piece lists. You cannot combine an architect's design (service phases 1-4) with detailed planning (service phase 5) by the kit manufacturer!
In particular, with the search terms "Neopor" or "formwork stone," you will find some posts related to this topic here. Additionally, Google will surely lead you to "Caution with formwork stones - risk of bursting!" which I was inspired to mention by a post in this forum. An alternative for self-builders of the shell who want significantly better compatibility with subcontracted finishing trades would be a kit from an aerated concrete manufacturer.