House construction project with terrible credit rating and almost zero equity capital :-)

2019-12-13 09:54:49

Content and factual relevance are one thing, appropriate, non-violent communication another. The way you express yourself, one might think you are schadenfreude, happily hitting on it again.

The post I just quoted is once again a prime example. This thread is about a young family that has suffered several strokes of fate. And you talk about pity for poor dogs. The image of humanity you paint here is abysmally deep. I don't know if it's intentional or if you don't even notice, but it runs like a red thread throughout.

Definitely fits the "do-gooder" rhetoric.

I found the inquiry rather arrogant and arrogant and a warning finger below the first post:

S.: since I have also had bad experiences after I have written/spoken at length about (soon) 5 children, some with care level as well as Schufa: comments about my/our lifestyle, responsibility towards children, "children only because of child benefit", "your poverty disgusts me", "Schufa, there are only antisocial people listed there!" etc. are inappropriate. No one knows about the why and how, only me and my wife...

and honestly, but this is my personal opinion. If you have 4 partly care-dependent children, a low income from work that is leveraged by care allowance, and a small living space, then get pregnant again and expect your 5th child? Sorry, I lack any social understanding in that regard. And yes, I have to pay for that in the solidarity community. So now you may attack my opinion again. Yes, it is not socially minded!!

2019-12-13 10:04:09

You are entitled to your opinion as well. However, in my opinion, this is the wrong place to express it, especially in the usual form. This is a construction forum. In a political forum, you are welcome to express yourself about such grievances. Here, I personally find this opinion unnecessary and it has nothing to do with a factual piece of advice on a factual question.

2019-12-13 10:18:59

You are entitled to your opinion as well. However, in my opinion, this is the wrong place to express it, especially in the usual manner. This is a construction forum. In a political forum, you are certainly welcome to comment on such grievances. Here, I personally find this opinion unnecessary and unrelated to providing a factual answer to a factual question.

Complete nonsense!

I explained why it is not financially feasible. And additionally, partly justified with my opinion. Care allowance temporarily, is not taken into account, etc. etc.

And I also deny the family that they can manage it. Alone for these reasons. They are struggling with themselves & life and are dreamers.

The 5th child is, for me, the definitive knockout criterion. Everyone is free in their actions, but then they should please reflect on themselves and not start with such dreams.

2019-12-13 10:23:41

And once again, you have simply disqualified yourself from a factual discussion.

2019-12-13 12:58:04

And once again, you have simply disqualified yourself from a factual discussion.

Your opinion. There is nothing to discuss here either. It is not representable.

The rest is then just my personal opinion which I am happy to share with you.

2019-12-13 13:14:56

In a thread like this, you really wish for moderation.

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