Evolith
2019-12-10 09:10:33
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that can happen quickly. Triplets, all in some way with a "defect" from a previous relationship. If everything then goes well and is well organized, why not have another child afterwards? Since his wife could even do a mini-job, they seem to manage everything well. Number 5 seems to have been rather unplanned But that can be managed too. Therefore, I would be very careful with a judgment. I can understand your thoughts, but you are simply not in their shoes.
: no, they are not misusing it. I think the money is paid out for full-time care at home. It is also intended to design and maintain the living space in such a way that the disability can be cared for. If, for example, that means financing a single-story dwelling, it may be used for that. What is not allowed is the luxury limousine for mom’s 30th birthday. They have to justify it.
Otherwise on the subject: I can very well understand that you want to get out of there with your children. I felt the same with our little one and we had a 120 sqm apartment! Look for a rental house. You have a better chance of getting something as a large family. Otherwise, save diligently what you can and look for an existing house that you can renovate.
Acquaintances had a similar situation. 6 children, one with a very severe disability a horse, 3 dogs, 2 cats and a turtle. They bought an old barn and made a very nice house out of it. You can see that no professional was involved, but there is a lot of love in it and they feel comfortable. But, if I understood correctly, it was quite a bureaucratic nightmare to get this barn approved as a residence.
: no, they are not misusing it. I think the money is paid out for full-time care at home. It is also intended to design and maintain the living space in such a way that the disability can be cared for. If, for example, that means financing a single-story dwelling, it may be used for that. What is not allowed is the luxury limousine for mom’s 30th birthday. They have to justify it.
Otherwise on the subject: I can very well understand that you want to get out of there with your children. I felt the same with our little one and we had a 120 sqm apartment! Look for a rental house. You have a better chance of getting something as a large family. Otherwise, save diligently what you can and look for an existing house that you can renovate.
Acquaintances had a similar situation. 6 children, one with a very severe disability a horse, 3 dogs, 2 cats and a turtle. They bought an old barn and made a very nice house out of it. You can see that no professional was involved, but there is a lot of love in it and they feel comfortable. But, if I understood correctly, it was quite a bureaucratic nightmare to get this barn approved as a residence.