284,000€
+ 8.5% purchase incidental costs (25K)
+ 40K finishing costs (there's a lot missing in the finishing stage) and some special requests
+ 40K additional construction costs
+ 10-15K garage
+ 10K outdoor facilities
+ 10K buffer
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That brings us to 424,000 which the bank would definitely finance.
Of that, 35K would have to be financed through something like Hanseatic at 5.99%.
Just the 390,000 will cost you 1,700€ per month (2.35% interest for 15 years with 3% repayment). Anything else would be reckless; so starting repayment at 1.5% with more than 100% would be risky.
On top of that, there are approximately 300 EUR for the subordinated loan.
Then there are things like furniture, lamps, kitchen, moving, etc. (another 15-20K) which should be paid out of your own pocket.
But feel free to go to Bien Zienker. Just to get a feel for such a conversation and the whole thing in general.
Also, I would recommend going to the house bank or a financial broker as suggested.