Heating concept for new buildings - heat pump vs. masonry heater?

[*]Nailing parquet would be done by ourselves here, but since we don't like having lava under our feet, glued parquet would probably also be an option.
[*]A heat pump would probably be necessary. Completely without 'automatic' heating, there would likely be a risk that we couldn't keep up with the wood at some point. Instant water heater/domestic water heat pump probably consume a lot of electricity or are not far off cost-wise from the heat pump solution?
[*]The mentioned electricity consumption of 3000kWh would be WITHOUT heat pump for the 150sqm single-family house, right? With oil heating we already have 4000kWh with 2 children.
[*]A masonry heater in Eff-Haus 55 would be possible (stove builder, wood, chimney sweep, fireplace). Cost of 1 cubic meter of spruce currently 65 euros for us (Brother-in-law's tractor also consumes diesel). Cutting wood is a great counterbalance to office work. Here, benchmark values for heat pump electricity consumption would again be interesting.
[*]Here in the village, everyone burns wood and nobody minds. I also find the smell/fine dust pollution very moderate. Our city apartment near a main road was much worse. But I don't want to get into that discussion here.

Thank you for the information. I'll try to summarize it

[*]Basic stove in Eff-Haus 55 would be possible (stove maker, wood chimney sweep, fireplace). Cost 1 Ster spruce currently 65 euros for us (brother-in-law's bulldog also consumes diesel).

Dertill had already written something about the costs. Here is a simple calculation again: So 65€ for 1300 kWh amounts to about 5ct/kWh. With a heat pump you can certainly achieve a seasonal performance factor of 5 and at 25ct/kWh heat pump electricity that also corresponds to 5ct/kWh heating energy via the heat pump. If you now consider that you can’t produce hot water with the fireplace, that it heats very unevenly, so sometimes very warm and then cools down again, etc., requires additional work, needs storage space, etc., that already sounds very little sensible.