So here I am again. Thanks for your responses. I did a bit more research. Now electricity, water, and telecommunications here have to comply with these requirements. So it will be a multi-utility house entry. I hope we can still use them, even though our water meter is on the other side of the utility room door.
I then checked the Technical Construction Description (Scope of Work) again. Only electricity is mentioned at all. "Execution is carried out according to VDE regulations and the technical connection conditions of the energy supply company (TAB)." It further states that the connection can be made outside or inside buildings. If inside buildings, then according to DIN 18012 gas- and watertight and, if necessary, pressure-water-tight. Now, of course, the general contractor can say that I can just leave the house connection pillar outside and the connection inside the building is my wish and therefore associated with additional costs. I tell you, it's all rubbish.
Regarding water and telecommunications, there is nothing mentioned in the Scope of Work.