kati1337
2023-10-08 11:51:46
- #1
Hello,
We have received a complaint from a neighboring party that our cats are defecating on their property. Right in front of their front door / next to the car. And there is allegedly always a smell of feces now. This was not the case before we lived here.
Actually, I quite like the people, but here I don’t know what to do. We have been asked to prevent this / do something about it. But I don’t know what I could do about it? The cats (2 of them) have been outdoor cats for over 10 years, I can’t suddenly lock them up. They are offered a litter box (also outside), but presumably don’t use the litter box outside. In this specific case, I also can’t imagine that it was our cats. They have gravel in front of the door and next to the cars, and it’s directly on the street. Cats don’t usually behave like that, do they? Our cats have always done their business rather out of sight in the past (they are animals, they don’t want to be vulnerable while doing so), and rather have used gardens/soil where they could bury their stuff. The neighbor claims our cats have been seen. I have not received any proof of that. Even if it was our cats, I think that wouldn’t even be legally relevant.
Now, annoyingly (right with the first message on Whatsapp), they have thrown a large amount of feces directly in front of our garage on the driveway. We are really very upset about this now. For one, because it is by no means proven that those were our cats. What is lying on the board does not even look like cat feces to me, at least not like that of our cat. It is way too much, has the wrong color, and is somehow too big. And I really find it quite rude to directly take such a passive-aggressive measure based purely on assumptions.
The legal side seems pretty clear here. We live rurally, in this residential area various cats run free (also on our property) and defecate wherever they want. There are numerous court rulings stating that something like this must be tolerated in rural areas. I believe it is limited to up to 2 cats per property.
I have now asked them to refrain from dumping feces on our property in the future. Of course, should it happen again, I could try to legally prohibit it by way of a cease-and-desist declaration. But that surely wouldn’t be good for the neighborhood relationship. Unfortunately, there have already been disputes with this party in the past. Back then, we swallowed the “toad” for the sake of peace. At that time, they complained that our construction workers had blocked them with their parked cars. I passed it on to my site manager, who got terribly upset because that was apparently completely exaggerated – no idea, I wasn’t there that day. In any case, he stopped it, and that was fine. But I already found it interesting back then that shortly after their complaint about the one-time parking, without asking us, they placed a pallet on our property which stood there for several weeks. I didn’t say anything – didn’t want trouble with them – but I found it pretty cheeky in the context of their own pettiness. Now I thought that was over and we always greeted each other kindly, and then today came this complaint about the cats. How would you proceed? Edit: Here’s a photo – Exhibit A:
What I don’t want:
- Them to continue dumping feces of unknown origin on our property
- To destroy the neighborly relationship
- To lock up / give away my cats
We have received a complaint from a neighboring party that our cats are defecating on their property. Right in front of their front door / next to the car. And there is allegedly always a smell of feces now. This was not the case before we lived here.
Actually, I quite like the people, but here I don’t know what to do. We have been asked to prevent this / do something about it. But I don’t know what I could do about it? The cats (2 of them) have been outdoor cats for over 10 years, I can’t suddenly lock them up. They are offered a litter box (also outside), but presumably don’t use the litter box outside. In this specific case, I also can’t imagine that it was our cats. They have gravel in front of the door and next to the cars, and it’s directly on the street. Cats don’t usually behave like that, do they? Our cats have always done their business rather out of sight in the past (they are animals, they don’t want to be vulnerable while doing so), and rather have used gardens/soil where they could bury their stuff. The neighbor claims our cats have been seen. I have not received any proof of that. Even if it was our cats, I think that wouldn’t even be legally relevant.
Now, annoyingly (right with the first message on Whatsapp), they have thrown a large amount of feces directly in front of our garage on the driveway. We are really very upset about this now. For one, because it is by no means proven that those were our cats. What is lying on the board does not even look like cat feces to me, at least not like that of our cat. It is way too much, has the wrong color, and is somehow too big. And I really find it quite rude to directly take such a passive-aggressive measure based purely on assumptions.
The legal side seems pretty clear here. We live rurally, in this residential area various cats run free (also on our property) and defecate wherever they want. There are numerous court rulings stating that something like this must be tolerated in rural areas. I believe it is limited to up to 2 cats per property.
I have now asked them to refrain from dumping feces on our property in the future. Of course, should it happen again, I could try to legally prohibit it by way of a cease-and-desist declaration. But that surely wouldn’t be good for the neighborhood relationship. Unfortunately, there have already been disputes with this party in the past. Back then, we swallowed the “toad” for the sake of peace. At that time, they complained that our construction workers had blocked them with their parked cars. I passed it on to my site manager, who got terribly upset because that was apparently completely exaggerated – no idea, I wasn’t there that day. In any case, he stopped it, and that was fine. But I already found it interesting back then that shortly after their complaint about the one-time parking, without asking us, they placed a pallet on our property which stood there for several weeks. I didn’t say anything – didn’t want trouble with them – but I found it pretty cheeky in the context of their own pettiness. Now I thought that was over and we always greeted each other kindly, and then today came this complaint about the cats. How would you proceed? Edit: Here’s a photo – Exhibit A:
What I don’t want:
- Them to continue dumping feces of unknown origin on our property
- To destroy the neighborly relationship
- To lock up / give away my cats