Front view windows are suboptimal and need to be optimized

I deeply regret that we are building a house. Maybe we can sell it; my anticipation is completely gone after realizing how many things we didn’t consider.

You can’t consider everything! Don’t let that take away your excitement. Once you’re inside, you’ll make it cozy and enjoy your family home. After moving into my first house, I also got upset about some things and wondered why we hadn’t decided differently. Once we had moved in and everything was finished, many of those things lost their importance, and some even turned out to be exactly right. So, keep your chin up!

There was another thread where the BBauuherr had some kind of postnatal depression. I think it was . However, only after moving in. I experience it occasionally, but the joy predominates. Focus on what you like!

just as said, that's probably how it is. I deeply regret that we are building a house. Maybe it can be sold; my anticipation is completely gone after realizing how many things we hadn't considered.

Don't hang your head. After the birth of my second child, I also had many negative thoughts and the feeling that I couldn't manage everything, and somehow everything was awful. Look ahead and enjoy the advantages that the children will have in the home! And the facade is just the outside; as I said, put a tree in front or something, and soon you won't even notice it anymore.

IRC are at least subject to notification for changes to window openings.

We have submitted nothing there, according to the architect this is not necessary, and the state building code of BW also says nothing about the topic. You were from Berlin, right? §61, 11c even explicitly lists windows and window openings as exempt from procedures.

Thank you very much for the encouragement. I hope it will settle down later. Of course, it is currently extremely much, and I think those who have already taken care of the house before having children have it much more relaxed. I would most like to cancel the contract with the developer and do everything step by step. But then you have to pay high penalties, and who knows how long it would take then.

How long ago was the birth?

A lot is happening at once and I know it can easily become too much. On the one hand, there are the hormones, on the other hand, the adjustment to one more family member, and building or renovating a house is always stressful. Try to free yourself from that a little and rather enjoy the time with your baby, because that time goes by quickly and doesn’t come back. We bought and (self) renovated our house when the children were 1 and 3 years old; when we moved in, they were 2 and 4. That was stressful enough, so I sympathize with you. But it’s worth it, I wouldn’t want to give up my house again!