That's just how it is. Like, what the farmer doesn't know, he doesn't eat.
Well......that is pretty harsh and right back into black-and-white thinking, isn't it?
Why does it always have to be so rigid, nobody said anything bad after all, or do people just want to be among their own kind or like-minded? No wonder that in the settlement all the houses look the same, although one can also find that beautiful.
Just imagine that there might be some completely uninhibited lurking readers here who ask themselves such questions because they are offered this. If a discussion or differing opinion is immediately shut down each time, then you're only among yourselves and the respective lurking reader finds no differing opinion. Is that really how it should be?
Were you so oppressed at home that you immediately blow up just because the one “older” person questions it for themselves, for their very own person!!!!, and even explains why it is so? To a young person I would like to say: You are an adult when you do something even though the older person says otherwise!
I like technology, I used to always be the first; today it often exhausts me and brings me no joy and no noticeable benefit (FOR ME!!!). That doesn’t mean I am completely lacking in empathy . Precisely because I have some empathy, I understand my children who live very differently and support them in things I would never need for myself because they simply enjoy it. Does that immediately make me the narrow-minded “farmer”? I find that a bit odd when I read it.