Would you also design the staircase in a next house like did, so that it leads fully to the attic?
Although I was not meant, I would never give up a full staircase to the attic again. It cost us many gray hairs during planning, but without a basement, it was worth its weight in gold.
The 550 €/cubic meter is far too little.
What is your budget for the house without the garage and additional construction costs?
Which own services can actually be provided - the materials still cost money.
We used to have an emperor, but nowadays 570 sqm is quite decent, for a detached single-family house about 450 sqm is considered the minimum size, which in my opinion is also sufficient. More would be more comfortable, but you have to be able to get it first.