I've been waiting for someone to write that the salary isn't enough
What is currently limiting your objectivity is your equity. That is really good for such a project and fundamentally completely sufficient. We took out €418k and also had €110k or then before/during the start of construction €130k equity, so enough buffer.
The problem is that it’s not the equity that pays off the house but your salary, and that is not designed for the entire cost structure (planned costs and even much less for unplanned costs).
I don’t know what conditions you are getting, but I suspect something around €1250 installment with 3% repayment, right? In addition, there are on average €400 monthly incidental costs. That makes €1650 for living.
That leaves €1850 for everything else. You really can’t move mountains with that, if I consider that probably still have to go out,
- €400 food
- €50 hygiene
- Car gasoline + insurance (2x €100 + 2x €40) = €280
- Leasing rate €300 (still 36 months)
- 2x €100 pocket money (canteen, café, etc.)
- 2x €100 clothing
- €200 reserves
- €200 savings rate
- €300 vacation
- €17 GEZ
- €100 Netflix, phone and co.
- x€ other insurances
- x€ consumption
- x€ eating out
- x€ children
- x€ special repayment
What I wrote above is the bare minimum to even get by.
The costs for children are not even considered yet. Sounds dumb but it’s true. Aside from the fact that then 50% of your wife’s salary will disappear.
Do yourself a favor and draw up a household budget. Get back to me with the result so we can look at it together.
The fact that the budget is not necessarily sufficient has already been written by others.
That does not mean that you won’t get an approval, at the moment everything that isn’t glued to trees gets a real estate loan. But that doesn’t mean the financing is healthy for you if the bank gives the green light.