Thank you for your responses. We returned just over 6 months ago, and my new German job is only starting now (so far still with the US employer). Fortunately, I am not tied to any specific location by the employer; anywhere within Germany works. That makes things quite flexible for us. Of course, we are still initially focusing on our current region, southwestern Germany / Baden and surroundings. Not Munich, but still a very expensive area, which is why we have doubts about whether it will financially work out if we wait a few more years, despite further savings.
Everything is still quite "fresh," so we definitely want to take things slowly. In the last 10 years, we have moved a total of 4 times between the USA and Germany and 3 times long-distance within the USA, so we are especially cautious about committing long-term now, even though we explicitly wanted to when we decided to return. Job-wise, the big step is done; regarding our main living situation and house, we are still waiting. It’s of course reassuring that most of you think we can approach this more carefully and don’t have to panic at the last minute. But I see it the same way: we still want to start actively informing ourselves and keep a watchful eye on the property market. It’s just that I’m still hesitant about whether we would really strike immediately if we actually found something suitable in the next 12 months.