What do you actually want?
The chocolate-egg-laying-wool-milk-sow in fairy-dust pink maybe (?) - getting help is certainly not yet quite firmly decided:
and then there are also concerns about just posting it publicly like that
The deal is: a largely completed questionnaire gives a great chance for many ideas. There are some creative DIYers around here, but they are often also very bad crystal ball readers.
Of course. Nowadays you can't be sure anymore to be able or willing to live in it forever.
You’re crazy. With buyers of thirty-year-old houses one often hears that they no longer like the then-modern floor tiles, but never: "you still have to lower the price a bit, the house will only last another hundred and twenty years".
I don’t believe that. What if you want to or have to sell the house sometime. And there are enough on the market. Then quality still decides, doesn’t it?
There are discussions here about that too, e.g. that one should move away from the kitchen standing in the living room again, because its being in vogue could be over in ten years. Or a controlled residential ventilation system: I and a small faction say the hype will soon backfire; a larger faction says without controlled residential ventilation the market will soon be like today without underfloor heating; and the majority says those two other factions both see it too dramatically. Same with ETICS – but on the other hand you can already see an all-clear: there were also discussions "potentially unsellable, nobody wants woodpecker and algae houses", and meanwhile some of these houses are already second-hand, without having to be sold at bargain prices. Only one thing is certain: whoever waits for absolute guarantees will
never build.
But why do both cost the same?
That’s called market economy, that prices are not only explained by the costs of material and processing: if two products address the same target group (i.e. people with the same purchasing power), then providers want to pull the same amount of money from their pockets. This mechanism works decisively price-aligning, then with objectively equivalent products quasi "only" the badmouthing of one product can lead to people preferring to spend their money on the other product. Economic processes will not be understood as long as people operate under the false assumption that market participants act primarily rationally.