Our technician told me that I should turn down the volume flow in the rooms where it should get colder and increase the volume flow where it should get warmer.
Well... something along those lines. Look up Thermal Balancing.
Whether you need to train as a heating expert is up to each individual, but you should at least read up a bit on the basic principle.
The energy source has nothing to do with the problem that you can't get large temperature differences in different rooms in a new building.
There are some things to be aware of in a new build or underfloor heating (usually the effect is stronger the better the insulation standard).
Temperature differences in the rooms. Depending on the constellation, you can achieve some difference. But since the interior walls are usually not insulated and thus offer little resistance to heat, you always end up heating the neighboring room as well (or the one below or above). A classic example is a bathroom next to a bedroom. Bathroom set to 24 degrees, bedroom set to 18 degrees. The bathroom doesn't reach 24, but the bedroom reaches 21. Flow in the bedroom turned down, flow in the bathroom fully on.
Now some might say that this worked in their old house. Yes, that may be, but that’s because more heat was lost through the exterior walls/windows, so this loss outweighed the heat gain through the interior wall.
Inertia. Underfloor heating is sluggish. Especially when combined with good insulation and low flow temperatures.
So if the room is too warm and I think I’ll turn down the thermostat to cool it briefly, I might only notice the effect the next day. Why? Good insulation retains heat in the room, and the heat in the screed remains relatively long.
If you want a lower temperature in one room than in another, yes, then you should adjust the flow rates. But keep in mind that with the new building/underfloor heating constellation, this is only possible to a limited extent.
Edit: This is by far not complete and simplified. In detail, there are often more factors that additionally come into play.