Don't know if anyone cares but I wanted to give an update after more than 3 years. By now we have been parents for 11 months and have been living in our single-family house since the beginning of 2020. Much of what has been written here about prices/costs has turned out to be true. The house quickly became 50,000 euros more expensive (refinanced) and this year we will only finish the double garage, and next year we will take on the paving and garden. However, we also treated ourselves to a lot of luxury, from a 6,000 euro Hase fireplace to 5,500 euro bay windows, stone countertops in the kitchen, custom cabinets for almost 9,000 euros, and a glass stair railing for 11,500 euros. Well, what can you do. We still have 490,000 euros in debt and the garage and exterior work will take 1-2 years longer than expected.
In a month my wife will start working again (part-time 50%) with 50% home office option. I have since changed my employer (100% home office) and starting next month (with part-time) we will have a monthly household income of 5,500 euros (including child benefit) + 13th + 14th salary for my wife + for me somewhere between 8,000 and 14,000 net bonus. Against this stands a monthly payment of 1,440 euros + planned special repayments of 2,000-3,000 per year. If I haven't miscalculated, that is a 26% burden of the household income.
What do I want to say with this? We live super relaxed with the payment. Despite the fact that I am currently putting my entire bonus into the house. But that should be done within a year. Yes, the numbers were a bit different 3 years ago but back then I had already mentioned that it could look like this in the near future. Regarding costs, much was right but if I had been put off by that back then, I could now rent a 4-room apartment with 100 sqm for the 1,440 euros or build for 100,000 more.