I pulled out the datasheets of our window assembly and those of my buddy who has double glazing
Apart from the fact that for both sound and thermal insulation the entire window must be considered and not just glass and frame separately,
... and there were a few dB differences ....
I already thought you were generalizing from a single case. In practice, however, both double- and triple-glazed windows are not inherently better or worse, and both have their justification. They are simply two ways to Rome, meaning the justification is neither in price/performance (as many homeowners believe, like two panes = tourist / economy and three panes = business / VIP), nor in the fact that one would be better for thermal and the other for sound insulation. Rather, one must "individually" – without the number of panes being a category/class! – look at the respective product specifically.
By the way: the "in-between" is part of the assembly, so I also like to speak of single or double cavities instead of two or three panes.