What can we afford? Young family homeownership. (Bavaria)

So guys, ok thank you very much. I think for me the topic is settled or at least postponed for now. At the moment, it is not possible for me to proceed without total risk. I will now simply start reading into the subject a bit. Otherwise, it might just be "only" a 3-room apartment somewhere... But thinking about it, with just under €3k net, I’m really not a bad earner... Really shocking that as a middle-class person you can’t afford a "normal" house...

But thinking about it, with just under €3k net, I'm actually not a bad earner... Really shocking that as a middle-class person you can't afford a "normal" house...

Yeah, then it means saving as much as possible in the coming years, and then she will go back to part-time.

my wife is a head nurse in psychiatry (outpatient clinic – so without shift work), 33 years old and earns 1,900 net in Hesse.
But well, this is not supposed to turn into a fundamental discussion about salaries of psychiatric employees. It just surprised me that here 1,000 net more is earned in a lower position

I no longer work shifts
I no longer work as a regular base worker, I studied and now do project work and training... Btw I am in tax class 3... Nevertheless, I work in psychiatric nursing.

you are right, but it is settled for now. Furthermore, I am a bit shocked at how many answers I received here within a very short time
Thank you

I wouldn't know what a) I should have said about your studies b) that could have to do with your financing c) your tax class and job title/qualification would change about my opinion d) could shock you if you receive what you wanted, namely answers to your questions