What can we afford? Young family homeownership. (Bavaria)

just by the way: I thought nursing staff earn so poorly? I find 3k net to be a pretty good salary(?) Except maybe in Munich.

Somehow the 2900,- net at your age and in that profession makes me a bit suspicious...

why?

why?

My wife is a head nurse in psychiatry (outpatient - so without shift work), 33 years old and earns 1,900 net in Hesse.
But well, this is not supposed to become a fundamental discussion about the salaries of psychiatric employees. It just surprised me that here 1,000 net more is earned in a lower position.

my wife is a head nurse in psychiatry (outpatient clinic - so no shift work), 33 years old and earns 1,900 net in Hesse.

Alright. You meant that in terms of the field. I thought it referred to the age. Thanks for the answer

Ambulance - so without shift work

With my wife, the shift allowances made the pot a bit bigger. Not infrequently, the nursing staff on shifts go home at the end of the month with (not insignificantly) more money than the 9-to-5 ward manager. At what price, though...

I would appreciate it if you first answered all the questions one after the other. We have all made the effort to read through all the pages and reflect on them.