In advance: I am an amateur, not an expert.
You carry out the heating calculation based on the design temperature - that is, which heat loss must be compensated per unit of time when it is really cold outside. Your exterior wall has - assuming it is broken stone granite - a U-value of 0.93 W/m²K.
Your floor loses 0.22 W/m²K (assuming that the installed EPS has a conductivity of 0.035 W/mK).
For the windows, I am simply optimistically assuming 1.3 W/mK.
So you lose in total - assuming your design temperature is -14° and the room temperature is 20°:
0.93 W/m²K * 34 K * 48.3 m² = 1527 W (towards outside air)
0.93 W/m²K * 10 K * 19.5 m² = 181 W (towards adjacent room)
1.3 W/m²K * 34 K * 14.5 m² = 641 W (windows)
0.22 W/m²K * 20 K * 64 m² = 282 W (floor)
In total: 2631 W... now I don’t know what is above the room... you write it is a reeds gypsum ceiling? Is it insulated, or are there normal rooms above?
Excluding the ceiling, you need 2631 W heating output, which you have to compensate through the underfloor heating. Are you laying parquet? Then you would have 19 W/m² at 28°... so a maximum of 1235 W. If you lay tiles, it is 23 W/m², i.e. 1472 W.
If you increase the flow temperature to 35°, it is 37 W or 44 W, that is 2368 W or 2816 W.
Smaller installation distances could possibly provide another 10% more power per m² (at 35° 40 W or 50 W - so not a huge difference).
However, this is all without ventilation losses and without thermal bridges... here you can add another 30% heat loss power (if not more).
Conclusion? If it really gets cold, you will have big problems if you don’t heat additionally or insulate your walls - I would possibly consider 10 cm ETICS instead of 4 cm thermal plaster here. That way you could save about 1000 W of heat loss.