You should definitely not sign the house construction contract before purchasing the land for the reasons mentioned. Otherwise, you can firmly plan for the real estate transfer tax, with
First contact with the regional sales manager of the prefab house company, who put us in touch with the landowner (private person).
Also, you can save yourself the planning contract for 4,000, why should they put much effort into the planning if you have already committed to the company to build exactly the house described in the contract (and that you actually don’t want to build).
And I wouldn’t rely on the right of withdrawal in case of missing financing either. If it is as the seller claims, then he surely has no problem including an explicit – and free – right of withdrawal for the case that you (for whatever reason) do not get the specific plot or it is not buildable, etc. Then you will quickly realize whether that was meant seriously... Since the seller is often an independent sales representative and not employed by the house construction company, he has nothing to do with you after signing and everything you verbally agreed with him is of no interest to the house construction company...