I just wrote a ridiculously long text and then deleted it again. I simply cannot disclose our matters openly. I am "afraid" that the aforementioned neighbors are reading along here and will then twist things against us.
I am really very sorry. You have already invested so much time and energy, responded to us, and helped.
We are involving our lawyer, letting him handle everything, and just hoping for the best.
Wenn die Widersprüche einer irrationalen Panik geschuldet sind, Du das Forum nicht zum Narren halten möchtest
You probably feel confirmed now, but that really is not the case. We are really afraid of the future right now. Everything is at stake, even the future of our disabled child, for whom we are doing this construction.
I will gladly inform you next week how the building authority has decided. I owe you that at least.
I really am sorry, but it is just too public for me. (Of course I knew that beforehand, but I simply cannot post our documents here)
If someone from our area has knowledge, they are welcome to get in touch and come by.
I really thank you very much for all the input!
Best regards Nicole and family