Paula80
2018-02-27 20:39:39
- #1
Thank you very much for the great interest in my concern—I did not expect that it would now trigger such a nice discussion.
We see it the same way—meaning that the actual advantage of a wedding is not really given if you can arrange the whole thing differently. Therefore, we want to secure ourselves as best as possible independently of a wedding, both in the case of a separation and in the event of death. And we will only get married if we feel that we want to or see it as necessary at all (after 10 years), and we do not see that due to the apartment purchase. Apart from that, it would also bring no financial advantage for us, both earning almost the same salary. There are no children either.
We see it the same way—meaning that the actual advantage of a wedding is not really given if you can arrange the whole thing differently. Therefore, we want to secure ourselves as best as possible independently of a wedding, both in the case of a separation and in the event of death. And we will only get married if we feel that we want to or see it as necessary at all (after 10 years), and we do not see that due to the apartment purchase. Apart from that, it would also bring no financial advantage for us, both earning almost the same salary. There are no children either.