In short, depending on the living area, a total budget of €824,500 - €847,000.
Reading that makes my stomach churn...
We have more than half in equity, even if not all of it would be available at the start of the financing, and there is enough available monthly for the remaining installments.
And my stomach relaxes again
Congratulations on this financial situation. That certainly makes building somewhat easier, even if the cost basis is higher.
Outdoor area green and grey
Nice expression - I'll remember that
Now about the KfW 40 Plus standard. We just looked at a model house with a ventilation system and cooling via the underfloor heating. That already convinced us in terms of the indoor climate. Especially since, so far, we also quite like the possibility of the KfW loan and the repayment grant.
You will also have good indoor climate in a 55 standard house.
Installing ventilation systems and cooling costs money there as well.
Without the 40 standard certification, however, you have less worries since there is no obligation to pass the inspection. That money quickly goes into even more insulation, conditions, and silly thick window panes, which is not necessarily enjoyable.
As a basement hater, I still see a basement for you: use it wisely and not just as storage rooms.
I would advise going to an architect, not a general contractor. Even if you want to build in a down-to-earth way: our user Hotzenplotz has really stretched the general contractor for his million-euro project, which someone building to standard does not always keep up with.
Some small fine things will certainly be packaged in your good standard, and an architect simply does that better.