Hello everyone,
thanks for the numerous responses. So the plan is as follows: We would hand over the shell construction to a construction company and arrange the rest ourselves. My cousin has built twice himself. He has a roofer, an electrician, etc. So we have everything. It will not be handed over completely turnkey.
One more thing: The city is causing problems. I applied for the plot alone. They sold it to me. Reselling, that is sharing the land price, notary, and acquisition tax, is apparently only possible to a limited extent. They want a financing confirmation from the friend by Friday and it still has to be decided by the municipal council. But the friend only has an appointment at the bank on Tuesday.
One question, assuming I buy the plot myself, what I do after the purchase is none of the city’s business, right? Then you would just have to pay the notary and acquisition tax again?