With Hauser Massivbau, I expect that you will be satisfied; they make a good impression on me. One and a half thousand construction projects without legal disputes is a cool slogan on the website, unfortunately I couldn't find anything about the exact wall and ceiling construction. Nevertheless, since this is not the first time I am looking at their website, they seem to me to be a good general contractor with apparently a technically enthusiastic senior boss.
You should accept the proposal of the east-border oriented house positioning. A cow mooing won't be noticeably quieter three meters further away, and for the cow fart, wind direction is more decisive than distance. Land remains land, and after all, it also has its advantages. By the way, where will the (in-laws) parents park in the future when they mow down their garage for your driveway?