What is an all-room, the term is new to me?
I also learned this term here. I find it terrible, but it serves communication. (Besides, it is wrong, since hardly anyone except us probably sleeps here in their "all-room"...)
I wouldn't say that, but rather that we are looking for a compromise of the three axes space/use, cost and aesthetics. We are not fixed on 12x12, but don't find it visually unattractive either.
The nice thing is: With your budget you don't have to make big compromises. Instead of relying on the "brute-force" method of square meters, you will get the better house at the same price through architectural intelligence. Probably a few sqm less, but a lot more living quality. Good that you are not fixed. A square floor plan has inherently worse usable space in the building center beyond a certain size. It always looks better in comparison €/sqm because less outer wall has to be built for more space. This value is OK as an approximation for a budget but should not dictate the quality of life in the house.
The goal is to use the available money as well as possible, especially in rooms, i.e. slightly larger children's rooms or guest and study rooms as two separate rooms. Since everything is a compromise, the benefit inside has higher priority for us than the exterior look.
About the budget – see above. A house that functions excellently for a family is more than a covered frame for a number of desired rooms. Would you expect an intelligent person from a completely different field to have a chance to deliver the same quality in your profession without prior training as you do? If the answer is "no," consider the task of an architect this way: "Surely they can do a few things I can't even think of, maybe I should deal with such a guy." Still happily keep drawing and deal with floor plans – it is really helpful. Just don't believe that the probability is high that you will manage an even remotely best design for the money. From the life experience of a rather advice-resistant person: Sweet-talking gets very exhausting after a while...