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Do I understand correctly that (childless) adults feel their own dignity is offended when a small child does not manage to get to the toilet in time?

No, that is not stated anywhere. In one of the posts, it is reported how this happens three times in the morning and then, well, a soaked pair of children's pants hangs in the sample room. As an employee of the house construction company, I would then be out and would cancel and reschedule the sampling appointment.

I believe we are suffering here from the problem that my textual description of the situation triggered images in some minds that absolutely did not correspond to the real situation. There was pleasant communication on equal terms, all day until after 7 p.m. The employee of the construction company was highly professional, always friendly, authentic, and I am convinced he would have told us if the situation had been uncomfortable for him. We are also talking about a very small baby, at an age where they are neither mobile nor does their little business smell particularly bad. If something leaks out of a diaper from the side, the child is definitely not soaking wet to the bone, but you discreetly put something fresh on them. We really just wanted to share our amusing anecdote that we already had 2 sets of spare clothes with us, but it still wasn't enough. The moral of the story should be: Sometimes things go wrong at a construction appointment, but it’s not a big deal. No one’s dignity was hurt that day. I can’t even believe what I'm typing here.... :D

Do I understand correctly that (childless) adult people feel their own dignity is offended if a small child does not manage to get to the toilet in time?

The situation is not described here.

Having children is not an internet order that you place just then,

Exactly! You have enough time to become aware of the role and to deal with how you will handle everyday situations in the future. You also have to do that as a future dog owner; regarding such social issues, there are exactly these questions about expertise so that you become aware of whether you want to give up your sanity with a new living being. Don’t get me wrong: I was just on such a club ship, on vacation. A quarter of the people on board were children. Some parents functioned, others did not at all towards third parties. I don’t want to imply that here . Ultimately, I reacted to this Tassimat statement and deliberately did not click like (not).

I can't believe what I'm typing here.... :D

Sorry, … but me neither… :)

Morning,

so here....

As an employee of the house construction company, I would be out and would cancel and reschedule the selection appointment.

but as an employee of a selection center, you would really be so out. And that due to lack of crisis resilience. If you already feel unsettled and threatened by a baby pee pants, you would have no business out in the field with the customer... ;-)

Anyone who knows real life should be able to handle that. Our selection person first told us that he regularly has to mediate marital crises and deal with mid-level nervous breakdowns because "her" ideas of the dream bathroom or "his" dream garage don't fit the budget. I think he eats a baby pants like that for breakfast... ;-)

Yes, there are situations where you should avoid bringing small children, at the opera or in a Michelin-starred restaurant is really not the right place, but in general it would be nice if little people were accepted by everyone as fully-fledged, entitled beings.

Best regards,

Andreas