So we slept on it for a few nights and unfortunately only had a brief chance to talk about it.
make your compromises
I am trying.
My first compromise is already to give up a large garden and a second garage.
I could also live with the kitchen not being directly adjacent to the garden/terrace.
You don’t know what you want and can’t decide.
Is it your mother or mother-in-law?
Mother – she has even more trouble deciding.
She simply can’t imagine something like that.
And she is less willing to compromise than I am.
Site plan:
It can be established that the property is enclosed by roads on three sides. The west side also looks like a larger street; the east street more like a residential street.
Well, to the west/north is the new development area street / 30 km/h zone.
And to the east there is only a 3-meter-wide pedestrian path.
But three sides would have to be made opaque with fences/hedges.
By the way, I consider the technical room too small in both plans since the washing machine/dryer are planned there as well.
That was intentional. The technical room is meant to serve solely as a heating/building services room.
In the granny flat, the washing machine is meant to go into the bathroom (which was sometimes planned too small).
And in the main house, the washing machine should go upstairs.
I don’t read there that she is a terrace breakfast person, as I wrote earlier, but that she likes the morning sun. And that means: east side!
“We all want sun all day.”
Of course, as a retiree, she is more active during the day; in midsummer she no longer stays in the midday sun but otherwise she indeed worships the sun... and for example
she makes use of every ray of sun in autumn.
Her current house is quite dark with few small windows – that will probably be the reason she now desires the sun (meaning brightness) so much.
That also reminds me:
Because of the neighboring house already built to the south, no sun reaches the property at midday/afternoon in autumn – that worries me a little.
In summer there was only a small shadow there; I also don’t find the view of the house or garage wall bad. You can make that look nice with plants or just turn the other way.
But there are also houses with north-facing gardens that live happily, right?