Sorry, that's nonsense. I install the engine tuning and the great sound system for myself. But when I open the window in summer and turn the volume up loud, I want to be seen. I don’t install underglow lighting "for myself" either, but so that others stop and look... just like the girls who wear miniskirts "for themselves," yeah yeah...
And with roof spotlights there is the risk that you are actually being talked about by the neighbors. Only usually not "Have you seen those great roof spotlights?" But rather "Have you seen that bad plaster he illuminates every night? Does he think the LEDs make it smoother over time?" Or "Can’t he turn off his spotlights once? What does he think is so special about his rectangular box that he has to light it up all night?"
It’s no joke, I’ve already talked with 2 neighbors about the idiots who leave their spotlights on all night. Whoever thinks this will earn envious looks... forget it.
My poppy field behind the house is the hit, I could charge admission. Yet I just don’t have time to dig it up.