A lot is really possible. I bought and renovated a small single-family house when I was 24. I met my wife, who liked it too. The plan was to live there cheaply. Unfortunately, it had only three rooms and when the second child was on the way, plans for an extension were quickly destroyed by the authorities.
We spontaneously signed up for an open house tour and looked at another one. Considerable backlog of renovations on all things that are not done when you live in it (electricity, etc.).
We liked it from the start, just found it too expensive. But as a couple, we are probably likeable (I think that’s because of my wife). Well, we agreed on a price within a short time. We completely renovated it in a huge effort within 10 weeks. Except for the kitchen and the coverings there, everything is new.
What I want to say: it didn’t take us a quarter of a year to throw all plans overboard. That happens quickly. But it works. We were a bit lucky and the first house increased in value. If you’re interested and can afford it: just do it. What could go wrong with a new build? And in 7 years there will be another couple looking again.