Thank you all very much - I will address the most important points:
Size: Yes, I also find it a bit large. Originally, it was planned to do without a basement, as the soil surveyor advised against it due to the floodplain area. The architect now says that building a basement would not be a problem and would make sense here since you don’t have to dig out that much. Technically, the basement would then be a white tank and would have no windows (as controlled residential ventilation is planned). Since we assumed we wouldn't build a basement, we initially included the recessed floor in the planning. The architect has now added the basement - which is okay for now and perhaps meant more as a suggestion. I will discuss this again - especially with my wife, who really likes the recessed floor.
Costs: The architect almost exclusively builds single-family homes; besides the office owner, there are a few other employees, so I assume he builds a decent number of houses per year and is not a “lone fighter” who only builds a house occasionally. I have asked him several times about the costs (also with reference to recently increased material prices, etc.), but he currently assumes that the costs are realistic. The cost estimate is based on enclosed space and area.
Study: The small study on the upper floor is intended for me and was desired in this size. I work almost exclusively "digitally" and try to avoid paper notes, printouts, etc., so only a desk with a monitor would really be there. But I will reflect again on whether this makes sense. I also don’t like the south orientation and will address that.
Orientation of the rooms: Thank you very much for the tips - especially regarding the cardinal directions.