Which type of housing suits me? Probably not a house...

If you didn't come from Berlin, I would think you are an acquaintance of mine.

Anyone who enters into a relationship with him gets the mother as well.
Briefly, an unhappy, slightly depressed mama's boy who is looking for a mix between a model and a housewife who tells him every day how great he is.
Looks okay
Income okay
Manners okay
Only
The charisma, the non-verbal communication is off-putting

Change yourself, otherwise nothing will come of it in the hipster penthouse either

I belong to the people who like to advise 25-year-old single men against building a house alone. The problem is always that she has to move to him; it’s nothing shared. No joint nest building, etc. Then there is the next level, namely building at the parents’ place. Financially that’s of course great, but for the partner who has moved in, it’s very awkward. I know enough people who like to curse the ever-present parents-in-law. Yes, and you are the sum of both. ~45-year-old single in your own house in your parents’ garden. Best to bring over laundry and have lunch at mom’s every day. That seems extremely dependent. Your lack of assertiveness toward your parents seems not very confident.

And how exactly am I supposed to do that? Recently my mother said to me with a very serious tone: "Something is bothering me. I happened to see you leave the house at 10 p.m. yesterday. Should I be worried? I couldn’t sleep all night." The fact was that I had forgotten dinner because of so much work and then walked to the kebab shop.

Are your parents (or is it just the mother?) aware of what this does to you? Since you were already willing to use coaches, my advice would be to do that as a group. You, parents, coach/therapist. You need to finally emancipate yourself and your parents need to let you go. Maybe you have the chance to work in another place for a longer time?

My parents would consider any decision on my part that deviates from the paths they have set as grossly ungrateful.

My very clear, very serious answer:
Move out as quickly as possible! Without regard for your parents. Either you make a clean break, or things stay as they are. Lonely and alone together with your parents. What kind of tyrants are they to guilt-trip you when you get a kebab? Make your opinion very clear on this matter, that it's none of your mother's business when, where, and with whom you go out.

My goodness... just rent an apartment somewhere in a hip area if the most important question on dates is the place of residence!

Hi

But now away from Mom, it's about time.
Maybe start by living in a shared flat or something like that. That will surely expand your circle of acquaintances.
Then work in the basement of the house and get out of there again in the evening.

Olli

Another possibility would be that you look for a woman from another cultural background. In some cultures, this type of cohabitation is common.

What kind of nonsense are you writing? You can think whatever you want about the AFD but very few have anything to do with Nazis.

Anyone who equates the AFD with the Greens (#25) might be a bit confused themselves... And no, I wouldn't vote for the Greens at the moment either