I think the construction expert is against it because they lack long-term experience (compression of the material).
To my knowledge, there are no experience values at all – neither short nor long term – because no builder who has insulated below the BP (slab) has had the surveyor come out again after 5 years to re-measure the ridge height. Only in this way, in my opinion, could it be definitively proven what real benefit sub-slab insulation brings.
In our latitudes, there is a frost line at 80 cm, which must be observed for all foundations to avoid frost heaving of the concrete. Therefore, under buildings, a layer of gravel is usually laid as frost protection. This directs rainwater away and prevents soil heaving during freezing. This also means that no significant cold can rise under a house built this way. It gets warmer downwards anyway, meaning at cellar level it hardly ever drops below 0 degrees; we do not live in Siberia.
But yes, basically I am in favor of insulation above the slab; I prefer to have it warm "in" the house and not underneath
Depending on the house, that can account for part of the heat loss.
On paper, with "assumed" values; as everyone knows, paper is patient
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