Spinne
2016-04-13 15:54:34
- #1
Can you give instructions on how to save up 50k€ by the end of your studies without receiving a single cent from your parents (grandparents)? Doing newspaper deliveries and holiday jobs alone didn’t work for me.
For most? In my extensive and young (25-30 years old) circle of friends, most of them
1. were very surprised when moving into their first apartment at how much time you spend cooking, doing laundry, shopping, etc.
2. were very surprised at their first job after graduation how pleasant it is not to have to study after work, but how little free time you have left after a 40-hour week (e.g. for tax returns, insurance, contract management, etc.)
3. want to enjoy their life (especially through intensive traveling) and hardly want to deal with many (serious) life topics
4. realized with their first child that their free time is completely dictated by the baby and little time is left for former hobbies and friends
It may be that this is coincidentally the case in my circle of friends (maybe it’s also because of the high proportion of academics), but maybe it’s closer to the truth than you want to admit.
I don’t see why the surprise when building your first house about how expensive everything is, how complicated everything is, how intensively you have to deal with everything, how much can go wrong, shouldn’t also be extremely large.
Points 1 to 4 can be managed even if you had different expectations before. It gets more difficult to cope with building a house if you have sold your soul to the bank and the name is signed under the construction contract. The magnitude of a 200-300k€ loan can go as far as destroying your existence. These are levels of responsibility that a young person can quickly be overwhelmed by.
I also wrote that WE saved the 50k. Not me alone. While I was studying, my partner was working. And besides studying, I was also working part-time and we were able to save this amount over several years. Knowing how to budget and not throwing money away on every nonsense has to be practiced/learned, I would say.
And I do not want to deny your points 1-4, because they certainly come very close to reality for many. But it can also be different. We were not surprised how much time cooking/laundry, etc. takes when we moved into our first apartment. Likewise, we also knew that when you bring a child into the world, 100% of the time is devoted to the child and life revolves around the child, not the other way around.
And it’s the same with building a house. If you deal with it intensively and clearly realize the consequences house construction has, then I wonder what speaks against planning/building your own home at a young age?