Thanks anyway for all the hints and the lively participation
hmm, what is explained differently there???
it says there that "negative assets" at the start, i.e. before the marriage, are not taken into account, thus causing a disadvantage for the other partner.
Example
M has 100,000 in debts
F has 10,000 in assets
then marriage, during the marriage the debts are paid off, and in the end there is an asset of 100,000 EUR
the starting assets are deducted from that = 45,000 EUR gain per partner.
In the end M has 45,000 EUR, F has 55,000 EUR
thus F here drew the "short straw." Because during the marriage a total of 200,000 assets were built up together, of which 100,000 went to paying off debts.
and actually the distribution should have been like this:
200k assets = M gets 100k = debt-free, ending with 0.00
F gets 100k = 110k final assets!
SORRY, my calculation here is wrong.... that was the case until 2009! because negative assets i.e. debts were not taken into account then!
Since 01.09.2009 it is different!
That means in this case it would be that F keeps 110 at the end, and M ends up at 0.00! Because actually during the marriage the 200k was earned, and thus also divided (50/50) and since M’s debts were paid off, that happens this way.