This is definitely a tied transaction. We had exactly this situation, with the difference that we owned the land and wanted to select the construction contractor ourselves. Therefore, we thoroughly informed ourselves at the time. I quote from the information provided by our tax advisor, who had informed himself in turn:
"With the version of § 8 paragraph 2 sentence 2 of the Real Estate Transfer Tax Act (Grunderwerbsteuergesetz) valid from 1.4.99, the legislator explicitly adopted the principles developed by the BFH (Federal Fiscal Court) regarding a uniform subject matter of performance or a uniform contractual framework into the Real Estate Transfer Tax Act.
Accordingly, the object of the acquisition transaction is not the undeveloped, but the developed property, if there is such a close factual connection between the contracts, on the one hand concerning the acquisition of the property and on the other hand the later development of the property, that from an objective point of view the acquirer acquires the developed property as a single subject matter of performance on the basis of a uniform contractual framework.
The BFH first focused on the feature "of the factual connection between several contracts" in its judgment of 18.10.89 (BStBl II 90, 181 and 183) and specified its opinion in various subsequent judgments (BFH 23.11.94, BStBl II 95, 331; BFH 27.10.99, BStBl II 00, 34). From this, the following statements arise regarding the determination of the real estate transfer tax consideration:
A factual connection can also exist if several persons on the seller's side act as contracting parties. It is not decisive whether the claims for transfer of the property and for construction of the building are legally directed against different persons. What is decisive, however, is whether the circumstances of the cooperation of these different persons result in the acquirer receiving a developed property.
A close factual connection between the contracts with the consequence that the acquirer receives the developed property as a single subject matter of performance exists in particular if the acquirer (at the latest) upon conclusion of the property purchase contract is no longer free in his decision about the "if" and "how" of a development vis-à-vis the seller.
If there is a close factual connection between the property purchase contract and the construction contract, the subject matter of the acquisition process relevant for real estate transfer tax assessment is the property in developed condition. In these cases, the real estate transfer tax consideration (assessment basis) includes all services provided by the acquirer to the property seller and to third parties to acquire ownership of the property in its future (developed) condition."
A close factual connection is considered to exist, for example, if A buys a property from B and commits to conclude a contract for work with C, who is already contractually connected to B in this regard, for the construction of a house. The tax offices would also proceed very strictly and restrictively here. One would be under the burden of proof to show that exactly what was agreed was not agreed. Even if one regulated it privately beyond the notarized property purchase contract, the private arrangement would be invalid in case of doubt - however it is designed - since one would have to deny its existence in order to avoid paying the real estate transfer tax on the house. But if I have understood TE correctly, this was recorded in the purchase contract?! Then, unfortunately, the real estate transfer tax would probably also have to be paid on the house.