Planning a construction project - What is financially feasible?

The horse is a family member, it simply cannot be given away I don't know how, but the owner of my foster horse manages it with 3 small children, so it is possible.

Niloa, as written, it is a matter of priorities. Furthermore, one must always consider their personal situation and possibilities.

The situation with horses is quite special, as they are living beings and there is also an emotional component involved. Furthermore, one constantly has the responsibility to take care of them, and there is no way to get rid of ongoing costs by pausing (at most reducing them). And there is no double, you won't get the exact same horse again.

This is not the case with many other hobbies. You can also just leave the golf club in the corner for a while, nothing happens.

Perhaps horse lovers should start their own thread, is there a [Smalltalk] section here?

The horse is a family member, it just can't be given away like that I don't know how, but the owner of my foster horse manages it with 3 small children, so it is possible.

We have enough children and horses in the family. They all manage it.
Offering a riding share is, for example, a good approach to relieve yourself a bit and at the same time do something good for the horse.

I myself have been working on it with our 6-year-old son for a year. Yes; it takes time and money. But life doesn't revolve only around this hobby.

and hope for a girl that one can infect

See my last post; you don't have to hope for a girl; boys can do that too

As I said, I can hardly relate when it comes to animals.

When my beloved brought up the dog topic, I immediately blocked it, not just because of money but also time!

We have 2 toddlers, I am a commuter, and I also want to do sports 1-2 times a week (running).

Such a creature just gets in the way.

And regarding the horse topic, if it’s about the garden or the horse, stress is guaranteed.

That should be clarified beforehand. But 500 € is quite a lot.