It’s just like in every forum: The same people usually write the same things and have their fixed opinions.
It could possibly be because such people simply have a clear position on certain matters. An original poster wants to read comments after all, or is there another reason why someone would publish their highly private project in a public forum. Whether it would actually be beneficial if "these people" simply always wrote something different than what they feel, I’m not so sure.
One quickly recognizes their peculiarities as well.
We all have peculiarities, your observation is logical because with an increasing number of posts, as a reader you get to know the perspectives/peculiarities of some writers better. The same annoyance as with a life partner... the more often you talk to them, the better you know them and yet you stay – tragic! Is it really different for you, or why is that a disadvantage?
You can think what you want about that, I’m also not a big fan of forum "big shots".
Certainly, I myself am not a "forum big shot", but I wonder how one could become one. What would be the disadvantage for an original poster if a user actually were "big" or maybe even had stature? Sometimes even combined with expertise, interesting personal experience, or good judgment, taste, etc. What would be the disadvantage?
You can simply ignore it, or try to extract what helps you by reading between the lines.
That seems quite shallow to me if as an original poster I simply "ignore" the opinion of the so far unknown "forum big shots" here out of prejudice. Of course, it certainly doesn’t hurt to be mature enough as a homebuilder not to blindly copy someone else’s taste or opinion, but rather to see it as a small part of your own opinion formation; I would recommend the same for other areas of life as well.
It’s just like in every forum
And as a previously less active user, I feel I must also say something.
Then you obviously participate in quite a few and different forums or read extensively if you have already been able to categorize users here and in other forums as you say. Maybe you yourself are actually a "forum big shot" or would like to be one like me, but so far you seem to be mostly a silent one who just chimes in briefly to pinch someone else on the calf?
I think your term "old-fashioned" is just as flexible as modern, chic, or traditional. For one person "Humbatätarä" (nonsense/folklore) is tradition and for the next it’s a dance in the French opera.
Your constructive criticism of the original poster’s project would be just as fine if it came without condescending formulations against others and also without directly addressing those critically; that can be done better!
At the end of your, in my opinion even apt critical assessment of the original poster’s building project, you refer to Google and one of the common prefab house providers. That’s okay if it’s your opinion, but where is the added value or novelty for the original poster compared to the answers from the "forum big shots" and other insignificant participants that you dislike?
You state your opinion once and in your next post these "old-fashioned, the dormers, the bay windows" would still please you as you yourself write. Then you would bore the forum at your next post or should be ignored because you have stuck to your opinion. Aha...I hope I’ll understand that some day...
It has helped me a lot here; if someone does not like my post they can say so directly and I would definitely and even without offense stay out of that person’s thread.
Therefore, I do not believe there is a need here for a briefly appeared authority that dictates whom or what to better ignore in order to then express their own – naturally only correct – opinion (old-fashioned, Google, Baufritz).
Yes, I mean you , I at least address you when I mean you: That’s how I think it should be and I believe some people (including me!!!) would be glad if you would in future not only be a reader and short-term accuser, but participate critically as an active writer; even if then we would soon also know your "peculiarities."